I still don’t understand your point. Why exactly do you object to the Allied bombing of German cities?
I already posted that. If you can’t grasp the difference discussed in the case i linked then i do not know how to explain it. I see the Allied (well, meaning in this context mostly the British since the US planes did at least try to precision bomb) bombings as problematic since both the method and the statements from the leaders made it clear that it was there to target civilians (as its main goal). At which i do see it as being problematic.
In essence why would the method of killing civilians matter if the stated intent was all the time “killing civilians”? Which it was once you get rid off the euphemism that were used to hide that. And at least i do object to deliberate killing of civilians regardless of which side does it.
However, if someone fires a gun at you then in many situations you would have the right to shoot back. The Allied bombing of German cities could be considered self-defense in the face of an aggressive foe.
No. For example the Finnish bomber stream infiltration - i.e. using Finnish bombers to bomb the Soviet bombers (which had been bombing civilians) - was self-defense. Just because some one else commits an action doesn’t give a carte blanche to the others to do the same. Sure, it provides a justification but it doesn’t remove the potential blame.